Escorts Canberra - The Neophyte’s Nearly Complete Guide to BDSM Aftercare

If you’re unfamiliar with the wild yet mysterious and fun world of BDSM, but you’re starting to show interest in it already, you might be thinking that it’s all whips, handcuffs and pleasurable pain.  However, there’s one important element of BDSM that ardent practitioners have built into their sex lives to ensure that everyone involved feels safe and cared for once playtime is over, and it’s a practice called “aftercare”! Here’s the neophyte’s nearly complete guide to BDSM aftercare.

What Aftercare Means

If you and your hookup mates, or even your preferred Escorts Canberra, now feel like you’re ready to give BDSM a try (or at least the vanilla side of it), perhaps you should both first get a really good lesson on what aftercare is!

According to experts, aftercare refers to the time and attention given to Private Escorts in Canberra after an intense sexual experience. While these encounters or “scenes” are pre-negotiated and involve consent and the use of safe words, this doesn’t mean that people can forget about being considerate and communicative once it’s all over!

Aftercare can however, mean different things to Perth Adult Service, since sexual preferences are so vast. But, in its most basic form, aftercare means communication and taking care of one another after sex to ensure that all parties are 100% comfortable with what went down!

Aftercare Can Help Cushion the “Sub-Drop”

Sexologists and BDSM experts also say that aftercare can also help ease or cushion what’s called the “sub-drop” or the sadness that a submissive partner may feel once endorphins crash and adrenaline floods their body after a powerful scene, although dominant partners or Private Escorts Melbourne can also experience sub-drops.

A 2015 study has found that nearly 46% of women surveyed felt feelings of tearfulness and anxiety at least once in their lives, most specially during powerful BDSM sessions. The experts have speculated that this may stem from hormonal changes that folks (especially the women) experience after orgasm.

Clearly, taking the time to be affectionate and caring after sex, or aftercare, can make sex better for everyone, not just for those who own handcuffs or whips. Thus, whether you’re with a veteran BDSM partner, or you’re trying it out for the first time with ladies like the hot and sexy Canberra Adult Service, always make sure you communicate, as well as care for each other, after a hot and exciting bedroom tryst.